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The Mother CodeBy: Ruthie Ackerman In this propulsive memoir, an award winning journalist blends history, science, and cultural criticism to uncover whether motherhood outside of societys rigid rules and expectations is possibleand whether she fits the mold for what a mother should be. This tender, generous book does the hard work of redefining motherhood and family so that they honor all aspects of a womans life.Christie Tate, author of the New York Times
By: Ruthie AckermanIn this propulsive memoir, an award-winning journalist blends history, science, and cultural criticism to uncover whether motherhood outside of society’s rigid rules and expectations is possible—and whether she fits the mold for what a mother should be.
“This tender, generous book does the hard work of redefining ‘motherhood’ and ‘family’ so that they honor all aspects of a woman’s life.”—Christie Tate, author of the New York Times bestseller Group
AN ELLE BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR
Ruthie Ackerman had long believed that the decision to not have children was a radical act. She’d grown up being told that she came from a long line of women who had abandoned their kids and feared she would pass on her half-brother’s rare genetic disorder. So when she marries a man who doesn’t want children, she hopes she can be happy without any. But a voice in her head keeps returning to the question: What if mothering can be a radical act too? When her marriage veers off course, she goes searching through the twists and turns of her DNA to decide once and for all whether she should become a mother.
By the time Ruthie finally determines that she desperately wants a child, she learns that motherhood won’t happen the way she thought it would. Now she must enter the hall of mirrors where biology, genetics, and philosophy collide as she wonders what it means to both create and nurture a life. What does inheritance really entail? What does it mean to be a “good” mother? When it comes down to it, how important is nature versus nurture? And where are the models for what a “good life” can look like for women, both with and without children?
Synthesizing reportage and memoir, The Mother Code unravels how we’ve come to understand the institution of motherhood. What emerges is a groundbreaking new vision for what it means to parent: a mother code that goes beyond our bloodlines and genetics and instead urges us to embrace inheritance as the legacy we want to leave behind for those we love.
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Looks great.
Nice quality with sturdy hardware. Size could be a little larger.
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Reviewed in the United States on August 30, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Great addition to my sewing table!
I ordered two of these to give me a little more room on my sewing table. One for the backside and one for the left side. Worked out great! Very sturdy and not hard to install (followed directions). I just extended when I need room and fold when not in use. I would recommend these to anyone who just needs a little more table/room.
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Reviewed in the United States on May 12, 2020
★★★★★ 3
Not very sturdy
The oak that this is made of is very nice. The little bit of extra counter space is nice. The problem is the bracket to hold it up is kind of small and flimsy, so the shelf won't bear much weight. It will be ok for putting light things on. Also had a problem getting it to hang flat in the down position.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2022
★★★★★ 5
A good product at a good price. this is easy to install, and very sturdy.
This will expand our counter space in our camper, it is very sturdy and well built, solid wood, and a nice hinge.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 13, 2023
★★★★★ 1
No quality control.
Look at other options. Received with hinge already attached to the wood, at an angle. Tried to contact seller, no response. I fixed it myself. Rather than having hinge attached they should just let the buyer install the hinge. Made in Vietnam.
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Reviewed in the United States on November 22, 2025
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