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閒話中國人:談到中國人的事,實在是麻煩得很 (中國知名作家、學者、教育家 易中天)

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閒話中國人:談到中國人的事,實在是麻煩得很 (中國知名作家、學者、教育家 易中天)200520062008 201336

作者:易中天 


這本書是講中國人的。
中國人的事最不好講。
 
一本「破譯」並「解密」中國人群象的解答之書,
從尋常之中,揭示中國文化最核心、最深層的秘密。
 
  講到中國人的事,為什麼總是特別麻煩?
  講了中國人那麼久,你真的了解中國人嗎?
 
  人之謎,就是文化之謎。中國人之謎,當然就是中國文化之謎。
 
  本書從中國歷史、詩詞、小說、人情世故、社會價值觀下手,發現一些大眾習焉而不察的習慣或習性,其實都有本有源,易中天引經據典,化繁為簡,撥清思路,一步步的帶領讀者走進一個趣味幽遠的中國人的世界。
 
  在書中,特別拈出中國最具代表性的九種文化現象來進行討論:
 
  ■飲食──革命不是請客,就是吃飯
  中國人見面,開口第一句就是問吃飯的事。會不會吃、懂不懂吃、善不善於處理飲食問題,就關係到會不會做人、會不會做官、會不會打仗,甚至能不能得天下。
 
  ■服飾──變通以趨時,不為天下先
  超前有風險,落伍遭恥笑,因此中國人處理時尚問題,有條古訓叫「變通以趨時」──時代變了,服飾也要跟著變,否則就是不合時宜。而只要做足「表面工夫」,就不至於被追究。
 
  ■面子──先顧全面子,再顧好裡子
  面子幾乎主宰著中國人的一切。人際關係,要靠面子來處理和維繫;社會生活,也要靠面子來決定和操作。丟了面子,就是「沒臉見人」,有時會比喪失性命還要可怕,所以也才會產生「死要面子」的現象。
 
  ■人情──不是不報,時機未到
  人情的基本法則是「回報」。然而,中國人的所謂「人情」,是一種說不清的東西,它是情感,又不純粹是情感。人情「還,還是不還」,對於許多中國人,也都是個問題。
 
  ■單位──「安身」「立命」之所
  對於中國人來說,單位是極其重要的。如果兩個陌生人見面,多半會問「你是哪個單位的」。在大街上騎車闖了禍,或者到機關衙門裡去辦事,警察和門衛都會問這句話。單位,差不多可以說是中國人生存的依據。
 
  ■家庭──內外有別,親疏有差
  中國傳統社會是「家本位」,或者說「家為國之本」。家庭的特點,就是「公私不分,內外有別」。當家庭成為國家和社會組織的「普遍性模式」,這兩個基本原則也就確立起來了。
 
  ■婚戀──盡義務,結親緣,繼血緣
  在大多數中國人看來,「男大當婚,女大當嫁」,於是婚嫁一事就從「個人權利」變成了「社會義務」,也就「人人有責」,每個人都有資格來關心、來過問,來插上一腳了。
 
  ■友誼──肥水不落外人田,資源共享 
  交朋友,要講「交情」。而中國人友誼的又一個特點,就是任何人的結交,都有一定的「圈子」。君子之交是一種圈子,小人之交也是一種圈子,雖然儒家的社會理想是「四海之內皆兄弟也」,但沒有一定圈子的交往,事實上並不存在。
 
  ■閒話──好事不出門,壞事傳千里
  中國人愛說閒話。但「閒話」其實不「閒」,在現實和歷史中常被拿來當成鬥爭的武器,造就了許多「閒話陰謀家」的存在。
 
  這九種文化現象,有的是中國獨有的,如人情、面子;有的雖非中國獨有,卻頗具「中國特色」,如飲食、家庭。現象雖有九種,但「九九歸一」,目的卻只有一個,即要揭示出中國文化最核心最深層的秘密。
 
  易中天是一位社會學者,多年來研究中國文化,他筆下的「閒話」其實「不閒」,其實是一位資深社會觀察家的觀察筆記。
 
作者

易中天
 
  湖南長沙人,中國知名作家、學者、教育家。先後任教於武漢大學、廈門大學。易中天長期從事文學、藝術、美學、心理學、人類學、歷史學等研究,著有《〈文心雕龍〉美學思想論稿》、《藝術人類學》等著作。2005年央視《百家講壇》「開壇論道」的學者。2006年在央視「百家講壇」主講《漢代風雲人物》、《易中天品三國》,2008年主講《先秦諸子百家爭鳴》,引起全民通俗歷史熱潮。
 
  2013年宣布寫作36卷《易中天中華史》,榮獲第八屆作家富豪榜最佳歷史書。現居江南某鎮,潛心寫作。
 
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